LU-10496 ofd: serialize fmd check and set

Serialize FMD check and set in OFD to prevent update
with old data.
Update also sanity tests 39j,k to cancel LRU locks on
both mdc and osc namespaces because for DOM files both
MDT and OST stripes are being used

Test-Parameters: testlist=sanity-dom
Signed-off-by: Alexey Zhuravlev <bzzz@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: I02e28e1e3e8e533d9c7450d798fceb9261b27ea0
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/36228
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Pershin <mpershin@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>