LU-56 lnet: reduce stack usage of "match" functions

Use new structure lnet_match_info to transfer the parameters
of LNet "match" functions and reduce stack usage.

This is an intermediate patch for LNet SMP improvements.

Signed-off-by: Liang Zhen <liang@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: I710a78c58add8609606f5d6de1f975ffc5200439
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/3070
Reviewed-by: Doug Oucharek <doug@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Hudson
Tested-by: Maloo <whamcloud.maloo@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Bobi Jam <bobijam@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>