LU-15115 ptlrpc: recalc timer on EINPROGRESS reply

LU-15115 ptlrpc: recalc timer on EINPROGRESS reply

ptlrpcd doesn't recalculate wait queue timer after
getting -EINPROGRESS reply. It may delay request resend
till its timing out.

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/45266
Lustre-commit: 9a5bace55a5ddb8a928af2de1b199e968f3fbecd

HPE-bug-id: LUS-10366
Signed-off-by: Alexander Zarochentsev <alexander.zarochentsev@hpe.com>
Change-Id: Idc76c688a0f7ff8e110446fd1fe13dd83f636f3b
Reviewed-by: Andriy Skulysh <andriy.skulysh@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Alexander Boyko <alexander.boyko@hpe.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/ex/lustre-release/+/49513
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>