LU-12214 build: fix SLES build/install

LU-12214 build: fix SLES build/install

Redhat and SuSe can have different library name for same devel,
lets drop a strong requrement to the library package name and
ask rpm to use an autoprovide option.

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/39972
Lustre-commit: 253a9e3bcd30bf411c57d77e137ff734eff1edb1

Test-Parameters: trivial clientdistro=sles15sp3
HPE-bug-id: LUS-7204
Fixes: e1bf37870d LU-12214 build: fix build with gss enabled
Fixes: d746e64fe1 LU-13562 build: SUSE build support for azure
Signed-off-by: Alexey Lyashkov <alexey.lyashkov@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I7e0fe83f9090e7616ab156fa75fed4821099406e
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/47595
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Yang Sheng <ys@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>