LU-10391 lustre: obd_connect and reconnect now use large nid

LU-10391 lustre: obd_connect and reconnect now use large nid

The 'localdata' argument for o_connect and o_reconnect when called
server-side is now a 'struct lnet_nid *' rather than an
'lnet_nid_t *'.

Signed-off-by: Mr NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>
Change-Id: I1ce72ec11a5d2463fb90ab2686410e2dd96118e2
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/50097
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: James Simmons <jsimmons@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>