LU-7434 ptlrpc: lost bulk leads to a hang

LU-7434 ptlrpc: lost bulk leads to a hang

The reverse order of request_out_callback() and reply_in_callback()
puts the RPC into UNREGISTERING state, which is waiting for RPC &
bulk md unlink, whereas only RPC md unlink has been called so far.
If bulk is lost, even expired_set does not check for UNREGISTERING
state.

The same for write if server returns an error.

This phase is ambiguous, split to UNREG_RPC and UNREG_BULK.

Signed-off-by: Vitaly Fertman <vitaly.fertman@seagate.com>
Change-Id: Ib1eeb1777ad1ab4c7ea1c83fe95dc9ae82c1894c
Seagate-bug-id:  MRP-2953, MRP-3206
Reviewed-by: Andriy Skulysh <andriy.skulysh@seagate.com>
Reviewed-by: Alexey Leonidovich Lyashkov <alexey.lyashkov@seagate.com>
Tested-by: Elena V. Gryaznova <elena.gryaznova@seagate.com>
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/17221
Tested-by: Jenkins
Tested-by: Maloo <hpdd-maloo@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Chris Horn <hornc@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <andreas.dilger@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <oleg.drokin@intel.com>