LU-11444 ptlrpc: resend may corrupt the data

LU-11444 ptlrpc: resend may corrupt the data

Late resend if arrives much later than another modification RPC
which has been already handled on this slot, may be still applied
and therefore overrides the last one

Send RPCs from client in increasing order for each tag
and check it on server to check late resend.

A slot can be reused by a client after kill while
the server continue to rely on it.

Add flag for such obsolete requests, here we trust the
client and perform xid check for all in progress requests.

Cray-bug-id: LUS-6272, LUS-7277, LUS-7339
Signed-off-by: Andriy Skulysh <c17819@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Vitaly Fertman <c17818@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Alexander Boyko <c17825@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Perepechko <c17827@cray.com>
Change-Id: I97806577cf979f49a75379ffc55947cc3dcd02b1
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/35114
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Alexandr Boyko <c17825@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Pershin <mpershin@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>