LU-6476 lnet: avoid race during acceptor thread termination

This patch will avoid potential race, around socket sleepers
wait list, during acceptor thread termination and using
sk_callback_lock RW-Lock protection.

Signed-off-by: Bruno Faccini <bruno.faccini@intel.com>
Change-Id: Ib0a06bd8b3947648cb3ab7e1148b5073f68316fe
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/14503
Reviewed-by: Amir Shehata <amir.shehata@intel.com>
Tested-by: Jenkins
Tested-by: Maloo <hpdd-maloo@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: John L. Hammond <john.hammond@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <oleg.drokin@intel.com>