LU-5530 mdt: Properly match open lock and unlock

It seems that when request resend with a corresponding lock match is
in play (thanks to large striping + llnl patch for the client to send
small requests only), after all the suffering and fixing coming from
LU-2827, here is another casualty in in open/lease locking.
mdt_reint_open() and mdt_open_by_fid_lock() might match the lock
on resend and not call mdt_object_open_lock(), yet call
mdt_object_open_unlock() before exit.
Since mdt_object_open_lock/unlock also plays with a semaphore,
hilarity ensues usually most visible as a rw_sem lockup
in mdt_object_open_lock.

This patch adds tracking whenever we actually called mdt_object_open_lock
or not and only calls mdt_object_open_unlock if we did.

Change-Id: I73c529229acec98cac4ad73f7b487e759ad9a763
Signed-off-by: Oleg Drokin <oleg.drokin@intel.com>
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/11841
Tested-by: Jenkins
Reviewed-by: Jinshan Xiong <jinshan.xiong@intel.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <hpdd-maloo@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: James Simmons <uja.ornl@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Faccini Bruno <bruno.faccini@intel.com>