LU-13569 lnet: Only recover known good peer NIs

LU-13569 lnet: Only recover known good peer NIs

A peer NI should not be eligible for recovery if we've never
received a message from it.

Test-Parameters: trivial
HPE-bug-id: LUS-9109
Signed-off-by: Chris Horn <chris.horn@hpe.com>
Change-Id: Iec2fd015f6410ab91c6ef7c222cbed0204243106
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/39719
Reviewed-by: Serguei Smirnov <ssmirnov@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: James Simmons <jsimmons@infradead.org>
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>