LU-14594 ptlrpc: do not match reply with resent RPC

LU-14594 ptlrpc: do not match reply with resent RPC

The server is able to filter by the connection ID, and drop late
coming RPCs of previous connections, however it does not happen for
replies. At the same time, this is a problem in some cases.

Allocate new matchbits for resends and check replies by them, instead
of xid. Connect RPCs are exceptions due to interop with old server -
at the time of connect we do not know yet if the server supports it.

Signed-off-by: Vitaly Fertman <c17818@cray.com>
Change-Id: I2aad037002b488b0c3371544ede0c47940f87efe
HPE-bug-id: LUS-9596
Reviewed-on: https://es-gerrit.dev.cray.com/158446
Reviewed-by: Alexey Lyashkov <c17817@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Andriy Skulysh <c17819@cray.com>
Tested-by: Elena Gryaznova <c17455@cray.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/43242
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Pershin <mpershin@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>