LU-16366 build: Add LCME_FL_PARITY to wirecheck

LU-16366 build: Add LCME_FL_PARITY to wirecheck

 - OBD_MD_DOM_SIZE: Should use 0x instead of 0X for consistency.
 - LCME_FL_PARITY should be included in wirecheck and wiretest
 - QIF_DQBLKSIZE_BITS used where QIF_DQBLKSIZE is expected

Test-Parameters: trivial
Fixes: 4c47900889 ("LU-12186 ec: add necessary structure member for EC file")
Signed-off-by: Shaun Tancheff <shaun.tancheff@hpe.com>
Change-Id: Ic2eecfc2b1945b5b249bb341f791a99c5b109b97
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/49311
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Arshad Hussain <arshad.hussain@aeoncomputing.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>