LU-11276 ldlm: fix lock convert races

LU-11276 ldlm: fix lock convert races

The blocking cb may be triggered in parallel and the convert logic
of the DOM lock must be ready that the cancel_bits could be already
zeroed by the first executor.

As there may be several blocking cb parallel executors and several
conversion callers, each requesting for different inode bits, setup
the following logic:
- the lock keeps the aggregated set of bits requested for cancelling
  by different parties, where 0 means the whole lock is to be
  cancelled, and where the CBPENDING flag means there is a canceling
  job pending;
- once completed, the cancel_bits are zeroed and the CBPENDING flag
  is dropped, meaning the next request will be a part of the next job;
- once a local lock is converted, its state is changed appropriately
  and no cleanup is left for the interpret time as the lock is ready
  for the next usage;
- as the lock is unlocked in a process of conversion and more bits
  may appear, check it and repeat appropriately;
- let just 1 conversion executor to work at a time, others are waiting
  similar to ldlm_cli_cancel();
- there are others who may want to cancel unused locks (cancel_lru,
  cancel_resource_local), consider CANCELING as a request to cancel
  the full lock independently of the cancel_bits;

Some cleanups are done:
- move the cache drop logic to the CANCELING part of the blocking cb
  from the BLOCKING one;
- remove the convert RPC interpret, as the lock cleanups are already
  done in advance; the convert RPC is re-sendable and an error means
  there is a serioes net problem;

Test-Parameters: testlist=racer,racer,racer
Signed-off-by: Vitaly Fertman <c17818@cray.com>
Change-Id: I901de34241704ed801152f071cb7f610fe6f4bfe
Signed-off-by: Mikhail Pershin <mpershin@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/39854
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: James Simmons <jsimmons@infradead.org>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Vitaly Fertman <vitaly.fertman@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>