LU-16387 lustre: switch OBD_ALLOC_LARGE to vmalloc faster

LU-16387 lustre: switch OBD_ALLOC_LARGE to vmalloc faster

No need to waste time trying hard to kmalloc large memory
chunk in OBD_ALLOC_LARGE. Reduce memory allocation attempts
by specifiying __GFP_NORETRY for all allocations > PAGE_SIZE
(as in kvmalloc in linux-4.18 kernel),
so the kmalloc part fails easily.

HPE-bug-id: LUS-11409
Signed-off-by: Alexander Zarochentsev <alexander.zarochentsev@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I7ff8acfb6b467a4f5a7e61b2b8ec631bea89f8a5
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/49380
Reviewed-by: Andrew Perepechko <andrew.perepechko@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Zhuravlev <bzzz@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Nikitas Angelinas <nikitas.angelinas@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>