LU-1095 debug: Common client/server message standardization

LU-1095 debug: Common client/server message standardization

Enhance and standardize several common messages.  In particular
when a peer is involved ensure peers nid is in the message, and
on the server include the obd name in the message.

Signed-off-by: Christopher J. Morrone <morrone2@llnl.gov>
Change-Id: Iaea477e7dab240866a10c1863886d21d674e293d
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/2200
Tested-by: Hudson
Tested-by: Maloo <whamcloud.maloo@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Bobi Jam <bobijam@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>