LU-16213 kfilnd: Finalize replay TNs with deleted peer

LU-16213 kfilnd: Finalize replay TNs with deleted peer

If there are transactions on the replay queue awaiting a hello
response, and the peer is marked for removal (e.g. because the hello
TN failed) then let's finalize those TNs right away rather than wait
for them to hit the timeout.

HPE-bug-id: LUS-11128
Test-Parameters: trivial
Signed-off-by: Chris Horn <chris.horn@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I6dc77cadaf850ab9ec37bf50241074bc3f5650b5
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/48784
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Ian Ziemba <ian.ziemba@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Ron Gredvig <ron.gredvig@hpe.com>