LU-10391 lnet: convert LNetPut to take 16byte nid and pid.

LU-10391 lnet: convert LNetPut to take 16byte nid and pid.

LNetPut() now takes a 16byte nid for self and similar process_id for
target.

Test-Parameters: trivial
Test-Parameters: serverversion=2.12 serverdistro=el7.9 testlist=runtests
Test-Parameters: clientversion=2.12 testlist=runtests
Signed-off-by: Mr NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>
Change-Id: I240caf6fb8b02b1814b9d4883aceda33894786a4
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/43619
Reviewed-by: James Simmons <jsimmons@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Chris Horn <chris.horn@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Amir Shehata <ashehata@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>