LU-12214 build: fix SLES build/install

LU-12214 build: fix SLES build/install

Redhat and SuSe can have different library name for same devel,
lets drop a strong requrement to the library package name and
ask rpm to use an autoprovide option.

Test-Parameters: trivial
Test-Parameters: clientdistro=sles15sp1 ossdistro=el7.7 mdsdistro=el8.2
HPE-bug-id: LUS-7204
Fixes: e1bf37870d LU-12214 build: fix build with gss enabled
Fixes: d746e64fe1 LU-13562 build: SUSE build support for azure
Signed-off-by: Alexey Lyashkov <alexey.lyashkov@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I7e0fe83f9090e7616ab156fa75fed4821099406e
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/39972
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: James Simmons <jsimmons@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Shaun Tancheff <shaun.tancheff@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>