LU-18249 o2iblnd: external mofed driver requires

LU-18249 o2iblnd: external mofed driver requires

Only the o2iblnd, when built for MOFED, should have an external
requires for the external kernel module package.

Remove the requires from lustre-* and apply it only to the
package that includes the o2ib module when built with MOFED.

HPE-bug-id: LUS-12355
Test-Parameters: trivial
Signed-off-by: Shaun Tancheff <shaun.tancheff@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I33133c112066f9dc07fa568594b93ccb7fccf746
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/56446
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Petros Koutoupis <petros.koutoupis@hpe.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Jian Yu <yujian@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Caleb Carlson <caleb.carlson@hpe.com>