LU-8241 ofed: fix compilation with MOFED 3.3

LU-8241 ofed: fix compilation with MOFED 3.3

Add OFED compat rdma header file during autoconf checks also.

Test-Parameters: trivial

Change-Id: Ib280311fa1565cda3c7322308f33575159218e42
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Eremin <dmitry.eremin@intel.com>
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/20644
Reviewed-by: Bob Glossman <bob.glossman@intel.com>
Tested-by: Jenkins
Tested-by: Maloo <hpdd-maloo@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Minh Diep <minh.diep@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <oleg.drokin@intel.com>