LU-15925 lnet: add debug messages for IB

LU-15925 lnet: add debug messages for IB

If net debug is enabled, information about connection, when
tx status is ECONNABORTED, is collected (only for IB).

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/47583
Lustre-commit: 9153049bdc7ec8217691481df64551e2768455a9

Test-Parameters: trivial
Signed-off-by: Cyril Bordage <cbordage@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: I44a33703931630b85cc0e847e2a038217b7967c6
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/50408
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Frank Sehr <fsehr@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Serguei Smirnov <ssmirnov@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>