LU-17476 lnet: use bits only to match ME in all cases

LU-17476 lnet: use bits only to match ME in all cases

If NIDs belong to the same peer and matchbits are matching,
declare a match even if matchbits are matched as not available
or ignored

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/54082
Lustre-commit: a7ae2e5515879dc31e87106314d35dc439a2c50d

Test-Parameters: testlist=sanity env=ONLY=350,ONLY_REPEAT=10
Signed-off-by: Serguei Smirnov <ssmirnov@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: I394c492381a2d069b34516c473220192df05fbd2
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/ex/lustre-release/+/54277
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Cyril Bordage <cbordage@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Frank Sehr <fsehr@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>