LU-7734 lnet: handle N NIs to 1 LND peer

LU-7734 lnet: handle N NIs to 1 LND peer

This patch changes o2iblnd only, as socklnd already handles this
case. In the new design you can have multiple NIs communicating
to one peer. In the o2ilbnd the kib_peer has a pointer to the NI
which implies a 1:1 relationship.

This patch changes kiblnd_find_peer_locked() to use the peer NID
and the NI NID as the key. This way a new peer will be created for
each unique NI/peer_NI pair.

This is similar to how socklnd handles this case.

Signed-off-by: Amir Shehata <amir.shehata@intel.com>
Change-Id: Ifab7764489757ea473b15c46c1a22ef9ceeeceea
Reviewed-on: http://review.whamcloud.com/19306
Reviewed-by: Doug Oucharek <doug.s.oucharek@intel.com>
Tested-by: Doug Oucharek <doug.s.oucharek@intel.com>