LU-17774 build: pass systemdsystemunitdir to "make debs"

LU-17774 build: pass systemdsystemunitdir to "make debs"

This patch passes "--with-systemdsystemunitdir" configure
option to the configure command performed in "make debs".
It also updates debian/lustre-{client,server}-utils.install
with the detected/specified directory for systemd service files.

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/54902
Lustre-commit: TBD (from f2621099bbbc032a053800940cb62d03dfbd7120)

Test-Parameters: trivial clientdistro=ubuntu2204

Signed-off-by: Jian Yu <yujian@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: I7c36904ea0ed0f393a76b0fb0ad444b330dfa78c
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/ex/lustre-release/+/54921
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Yang Sheng <ys@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>