LU-12019 build: Recognize Debian Kernel and set KMP dir

LU-12019 build: Recognize Debian Kernel and set KMP dir

Recognize Debian kernel and make sure kernel module package (KMP)
directory matches with KMP_MODDIR of Ubuntu and the Debian building
package system.

Change-Id: Ia3570500ed538c5d3c7a002eafddfc715efbf580
Test-Parameters: trivial clientdistro=ubuntu2204
Signed-off-by: Thomas Stibor <t.stibor@gsi.de>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/51066
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Stibor <thomas@stibor.net>
Reviewed-by: Jian Yu <yujian@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>