LU-12199 lnet: verify msg is commited for send/recv

LU-12199 lnet: verify msg is commited for send/recv

Before performing a health check make sure the message
is committed for either send or receive. Otherwise we
can just finalize it.

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/34797
Lustre-commit: fc6b321036f34c00d5b32b49c817dc0034fbad9e

Signed-off-by: Amir Shehata <ashehata@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: Id7bd956f8e81e60a2d63059730973f851d4c7abe
Reviewed-by: Chris Horn <hornc@cray.com>
Reviewed-by: Sebastien Buisson <sbuisson@ddn.com>
Signed-off-by: Minh Diep <mdiep@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/36039
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>