LU-15398 lnet: Avoid peer NI recovery for local interface

LU-15398 lnet: Avoid peer NI recovery for local interface

If a MR peer has a MR peer entry for itself (can happen if manually
created or discovery is run on itself for some reason), then it is
possible for it to put its own interfaces into peer recovery. Problems
with local interfaces should be handled via local NI recovery.

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/45933
Lustre-commit: fb5d7036ec356c825f2aadece68cd7c4af487680

Test-Parameters: trivial testlist=sanity-lnet
HPE-bug-id: LUS-10661
Signed-off-by: Chris Horn <chris.horn@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I5b28195979a6113fa863b5795a4528b072610891
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/ex/lustre-release/+/51683
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Frank Sehr <fsehr@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Cyril Bordage <cbordage@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>