LU-16661 build: remove -dev packages for Debian

LU-16661 build: remove -dev packages for Debian

Don't depend on libmount-dev, libsnmp-dev, libkeyutils-dev for the
lustre-client-utils and lustre-server-utils packages.  These are
only needed for build and for the lustre-client-dkms package.

Disable SNMP by default as this is no longer used anywhere.

Lustre-change: https://review.whamcloud.com/52281
Lustre-commit: TBD (from 4bfc45e048d4372332defa3c438b480ed68111f6)

Test-Parameters: trivial testlist=runtests clientdistro=ubuntu2204
Test-Parameters: trivial testlist=runtests clientdistro=ubuntu2004
Fixes: 7dc6e1128a ("LU-15888 build: Debian dkms-debs requires ed and libkeyutils")
Fixes: af2f77633b ("LU-13818 build: use libsnmp-dev instead of libsnmp30")
Signed-off-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Change-Id: Ib788a97028ee40a9c61070d00b823620ec3ebbe5
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/ex/lustre-release/+/52282
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Jian Yu <yujian@whamcloud.com>