LU-10283 mdd: fix parent FID in changelog of striped directory

LU-10283 mdd: fix parent FID in changelog of striped directory

Changelog entry for the file operations such as create, rename,
link, unlink, mkdir referred to parent FID ("p=") as a shard's
FID in a striped directory. The same was true for the source's
parent FID ("sp="). This commit hides the Lustre intrinsics from
user displaying the parent's directory FID instead as expected.

An object might be in a remote MDT, in which case obtaining the parent
FID via the linkEA can be an expensive operation, so the parent FID is
cached in the mdd_object, so that the cost of the cross-MDT RPC is
amortized over the lifetime of the object.

Certain userspace tools might depend on the previous behavior of
displaying the shard's parent FID in the changelog records, so this
canp be enabled by setting mdd.*.enable_shard_pfid=1, if this is
required for compatibility.

HPE-bug-id: LUS-10721
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Ivanov <dmitry.ivanov2@hpe.com>
Change-Id: Iae15b49f5852f36ba62ae1706d3a5f4ebf307bc4
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/51322
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Lai Siyao <lai.siyao@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>