LU-17676 build: configure should prefer to ask if

LU-17676 build: configure should prefer to ask if

In general configure messages should ask 'if <something>'
as configure is asking the question and trying to automatically
determine the answer.

If most cases prefer 'if <something>'

This updates configure messages to ask if ...

Test-Parameters: trivial
HPE-bug-id: LUS-12117
Signed-off-by: Shaun Tancheff <shaun.tancheff@hpe.com>
Change-Id: I11a42583faf2f88194c93a9aeea3b64f0d95f0eb
Reviewed-on: https://review.whamcloud.com/c/fs/lustre-release/+/54571
Tested-by: jenkins <devops@whamcloud.com>
Tested-by: Maloo <maloo@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@whamcloud.com>
Reviewed-by: Timothy Day <timday@amazon.com>
Reviewed-by: Oleg Drokin <green@whamcloud.com>